MARRIAGE

One of the purest form of relationship between two individuals which later becomes a relationship between two souls : "MARRIAGE"
           Marriage is a connection between souls once it is decided. Engagement is wherein the souls know each other and slowly get to understand one another. Many a times people tend to think that getting a person married is the best way to bring them on the track of responsibilities but that's when they commit a mistake, a biggest one rather.
Get a person married only when s/he is ready to carry all the responsibilities that comes after marriage on their shoulders with complete caution and not when you feel is right. It's a life time commitment.
    For people, society matters more than their child or family.
A girl should get married by 23 or else she won't conceive is what people say when asked about their opinion on the right age for girls to get married. 
    Most of the time, a girl's dreams are curbed in order to get a good groom suitable for her.
Why always a girl is expected to sacrifice all her dreams for the sake of a relationship?
How easily he said and walked away "Quit your job. I don't want you to work." Did he even think about her? Did he even know that she too had some dreams to fulfill?
    Does the family think about what the girl wants??
Why does the family and the so called relatives poke their nose in the life of a girl? Why do people manipulate her parents and convince them about their point of view?
          A girl is more likely to be rejected coz she is well qualified than the boy which the boy's side is usually called 'overqualified'. When a girl doesn't reject the guy who is well educated why does the boy reject a well qualified girl?
Any explanation doesn't justify this stupidity in our society. Marriage is never a mistake it's either a good experience or a bad one. Some people even blame their spouse for an unsuccessful marriage and some blame their parents. It's ultimately ones own decision at the end.  
      Before marring one needs to decide if s/he is capable of taking up the responsibilities or not, taking a stand for your own self is equally important.
  Marriages are decided in heaven and a formality to tie them in a relation is done on earth they say.
        Forcing a girl to marry at the age 23 will not gain anyone anything coz thats the age when she has a dream of securing her future, will be busy making a career for herself and parents force her to get married that's when they make her quit her job, make her shatter her dreams just for a relationship.
        Marriage is a relationship of souls not bodies,
It's a bond of hearts more than a relation of two bodies
Marriage is a purest form of relation between two individuals more than two families.
Marriage is everything if it's a good one with the right person but it also has the capacity to ruin everything if it's with a wrong person.

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मज़ाक

वो चाहे जिसका मज़ाक उड़ाए लेकिन इनका मज़ाक कोई ना उड़ाए

A girl..

Why is she born??
Just for the sake of carrying babies?
Doesn't she have a life for herself? Why is she treated as a show piece?
       Many a times we take her for granted. We think she is born to spend her whole life in the kitchen and within the four walls of the house but lil do we realise she is a human like me like you like all of us. Today I heard someone saying - 'You are born to cook food in the kitchen, to do all the house hold chores. Why do you need to study so much?' I was shocked when I heard that. Being in the 21st century, some people are still stuck in the 19th century, their thoughts towards a girl, their thinking about a girl's self-respect, their way of treating a girl everything tells their narrow-minded thinking. Often I also come across people who say 'You are a girl be in your limits, get married and have a baby; that's enough.' I wonder is a girl sent to this earth just to do what people say? No such people think that a man gave birth to them. They always forget that a woman carried them for 9 months and almost gave up in labour that's when they were born.
        A girl is much more than the description which always defines a girl.
She is a bundle of happiness, a way to make everyone smile, a packet of joy and laughter a baby girl is.
She is mumma's world and daddy's princess for life. She is sent on this earth to achieve everything she desires to, she has been sent to know what the world consists of, she is here to carry another life for 9 months and spread hapoiness around her. Yet she is underestimated, she is disregarded, she is thought as a burden.
        She is a complete package of love, life happiness, pleasure, joy, smile, laughter.. She can smile with tears in her eyes.
She can survive every storm of life, she can handle many relations at a time.
She is God's most wonderful creation

Kabhi socha??

Kabhi socha uss par kya beeti hogi jab aap dono ke ladai ki?
Kabhi yeh jaana ussko kaisa laga hoga jab aapne apna gussa uss par utaara
Kabhi usski zindagi mein kya chal raha hai yeh pucha uss se?
Kabhi yeh samjha ki bura ussko bhi lagta hoga cheezon ka
Kabhi usski jagah par khud ko rakh kar dekha?
Kabhi yeh jaana ki woh roti hai bhi ya nahi?
Kabhi pucha ussko ki woh kaisi hai?
Kabhi jaana ki woh apne muskuraahat ke peeche kya chupaye ghoom rahi hai?
Kabhi bagal mein bithake uss se pyaar se baat ki?
Kabhi usske dil ka haal jaana??
Kabhi yeh socha ki aapke ahem ke takkar mein woh piss rahi thi??

Kabhi nahi..
Ussko zindagi mein aish-o-aaram diya hai
Isiliye ussko kisi cheez ki kami kabhi lagegi nahi aur lag bhi nahi sakti
Kaash usske jagah khud ko rakh kar dekha hota toh shaayad woh aaj bhi aapke saath hoti

She...!!

Many a times, parents think our child/children are happy most of the times they are wrong. A simple smile isn't the sign of happiness. A smile has the capacity to open many secrets and hide many wounds.
   Providing luxury to children doesn't always work. A child needs love and care equally from both mother and father but many get the love from a single parent.
Being a single girl child of the house isn't easy when both parents are working. Handling their tantrums, their ego clashes, their silly arguments, their fights isn't an easy task. Many a times, she ends up in crying or even worse harms herself.

   Just because they provided with all the facilities and amenities doesn't mean they have fulfilled their duty as parents a child needs much more especially when it's a toddler. Growing up with toys surrounded by your side isn't easy not all can cope up with it but she did. No wonder she is emotionally attached to soft toys, they have always been with her from her childhood till this date. They have heard her when is angry, they sat with her when she was lonely, they handled the broken her, they knew everything about her which not many knew.
   She saw her parents fight, argue and even curse their marriage and called her a mistake still she smiled as if she is fine. Everything she had to bear because she had no other option. Being a daughter she knew how to be patient and yet people often told she was impatient. If being impatient means chocking on your own tears, if being impatient means crying in front of the walls of her room then what exactly is the meaning of impatience & patience?
     Her mother being a working woman yelled at her for no good reason. Her father took her as a punching bag infact not just her father her mother as well. Did they ever think about her?? Did they ever know how it felt to be abandoned?? Did they know how it feels to be indirectly called as a murderer of the unborn?? Did they know what it takes to hear that "you are a mistake??"

         No they don't know and they will never know.. !!!

First day

"I won't let you go. " he said holding her hand with moist eyes
"I don't want to miss my first class on the first day, dad" she said wiped his eyes and ran into the gate