PEARLS FROM THE OCEAN OF HEART
Who is she...?? What is she made for..?? Why is she put into this world...?
Lemme answer
She is an angel, God's angel put here amongst us for our sake, for the sake of wellness, to wipe our tears in the form of mother, sister, friend, girlfriend, wife, daughter. She comes with many relations attached to her as soon as she is born. Just like how relations get attached so do people. Along with relationships she is burdened with responsibilities which is more than her own weight.
At an early age she needs to sacrifice her respect, her confidence for her younger siblings, for the sake of others she quits her studies. Just because people want her to get married she needs to quit her dreams, her ambitions.
What do they think of her..?? If at all it would be a boy in her place, he would be allowed to fulfill all his wishes and do as per his will.
She isn't allowed to speak in front of elders but they can question everything about her even about her character but she shouldn't say a word. What sort of justice is this? What kind of equality is this? She should put her head down when boys tease her. Why so..? She shouldn't study more than the guy she marries. Why? Why is it so that boys can tease girls and she shouldn't say a word? Just because you are a girl...!!
Why so much prejudices? Just because she is a girl.
She isn't made for getting married, bearing all the pain, every insult & giving birth to a baby & just be locked up inside the four walls.
She is made to like happily, she is made to study, she is made to fly in the sky, she is made to fulfill all her dreams, she is put here to take care of her family and enjoy in every possible way not to just die inside the box of house. Why should she quit her career for the sake of having kids? Why always a girl foetus is aborted? Why should a baby girl suffer?
Just because she is a girl?
Is it her mistake that she is a girl? Actually to be a girl is a blessing not a burden. Not all get a chance to be a girl, to be a woman, to bear a baby, to handle all the pain.
Even though she is a girl, she does everything for her family. As a daughter she does for her father, as a sister she does for her brother, as a wife she does for her husband, almost gives up in the labour after which she lives for her children.
Everything she does and gets the credit of nothing. Doesn't she have the right to live for herself? Why isn't she supposed to be happy? Why doesn't she get appreciation for things she does? Why always she kills her wishes?
Don't force her to accept your decisions. Let her be to herself because, she is after all a human being as well.
Why always a GIRL....????
