Character

How do you judge a girl's character? Based on what she wears? On the basis of her attire? Based on her friends list? On the basis of how many boys she has on her friends list? First of all who are you to judge her character? Never judge a girl's character based on all this. These are all materialistic things which fade away but her soul, her heart and her thinking still remains the same. Just because her friends list has many boys than girls, it doesn't mean she is characterless it simply means that she trusts her boy friends more than girl friends. It's a new trend these days of judging a girl by the number of boy friends she has. Girls aren't mere toys or rather puppets in your hands. The society outside needs to understand that like every other person even a girl is a human being; she is not just a daughter or sister or friend or wife or mother. Like everyone she too has rights to live her life how she wants. A single question on her character either breaks her or makes her what she actually isn't. For every person, his/her character is very important. The day you question her purity, you lose her. She too can have a past or may be more than one but if she is with you, trust me she will be loyal. Boys can have many ex girlfriends but a girl isn't supposed to have a single guy until she finds the right one. Isn't it great? C'mon until she has a wrong relationship how will she find the right one? A boy is never questioned based on him being a virgin but a girl is always answerable to such questions. Her chastity is always questioned. Why? Simple just coz she is a 'GIRL'. I wonder why a girl has many rules, disciplines, principles, regulations to follow? Don't boys need to follow them as well? Why always a girl should step back when it comes to anything related to her self respect? Just because a girl is soft spoken, kind hearted, generous people take her for granted. A girl is anything and everything but she isn't a puppet or a toy to play with. A girl and boy are alone in a room that doesn't mean something is going on in between them. There are 'N' number of chances that they share a bond about which you have no idea. "Trust" is what every girl yearns for. She loves it when she gets in full rather than the belief that she receives in bits and pieces. You trust her completely, she will believe you. A single lie to her will make her question every truth of yours. When she lacks trust, she simply walks away without a word, without a goodbye, without warning and later you are left with her memories only.