Letter to my (future) baby #2

My dear baby,
  
       Mumma misses you
My parents have taught me a lot about parenting.
They say keeping another life within herself makes her a mother but it's not true. Just keeping doesn't make her a mother. She needs to know whats wrong and what's right; she needs to understand, she should trust her child. She needs to know things about her child. She should know what's wrong what's right for herself and her baby. Without trust no relationship shall survive but it doesn't mean you should trust every other person. Invest your trust in those whom you feel will not break it. First trust God, second yourself. I will carry you for 9 months in my womb, i will nourish you, nurture you but if i don't trust you, everything is useless.
       I have made several compromises in my life for many reasons not because i wanted to but because it was necessary.
Baby, compromise is a part of life. Sometimes you'll have to sacrifice your smile for someone's laugh it may not gain you any monetary benefits but it'll give you a sort of pleasure for sure. Baby, i you'll never be a mistake in my life, you'll be a gift, a treasure. Some may accept you and some won't they accept or not you be the way you are because the society, people will either ways have things to say about you, against you.
      I know you and me have to survive in the same world, same society but that doesn't mean you'll have to give upon your wishes, your dreams. Stay firm, stand for yourself because no one will do it for you. Stick to what you wanna achieve in life. I will be there but as you know things aren't permanent. Expect God, no one is perfect and nothing is permanent. Never consider me to be God because I was sent by him. I am a human just like you are.

Love
Mumma

Letter to my (future) baby #1

My dear baby,
     Mumma misses you a lot. You know i have faced things in my life mostly what i have faced is trust issues but the problem is my parents don't see it. They feel just coz they have provided me with every luxury i shouldn't have any issues. But unfortunately they have never been my friends. They say mother is daughter's best friend but in my case forget best friend my mother never tried to befriend me in the first place. My mom always doubted me for every silly thing. Now a days my words also prick their ears even if I just talk normally, they feel i am yelling at them, i am angry which isn't true. I too have my limits, I too can get irritated, i too have patience. The more patience i show, the more they test it. Is being impatient at times is a crime? It's not that i don't love them but even love has limits.
Having them as my parents, i feel lucky sometimes but sometimes i wish they would understand me.
  The bridge of understanding never built between me and my parents but it won't be the same with you and me.

Love
Mumma

Love ❤

A smile he carried always
She caught his every lie
He looked everywhere except her
She looked deep into his eyes,
A hug was all he needed to shatter
A hug was all she had to give him
Shr hugged him as if he was her baby
His grip tightened around her
She could feel him break down
She just let him shed tears
Coz it was the outburst of his patience and love
All she did was just held him tightly and kept him close
She calmed him
He looked serene after the down pour
"Love is all about being with the person when they need you" he always said
And today she proved it right for him

ನೀನು

ಕಣ್ಣಂಚಲಿ ಬಚ್ಚಿಡುವೆ ನಿನ್ನ ಓ ಗೆಳತಿ
ಮನಸ್ಸಲ್ಲಿ ಮನೆ ಮಾಡಿ ಇರು ನೀ ಅಲ್ಲಿ
ಕಣ್ಣಲ್ಲಿ ಕಣ್ಣಿಟ್ಟು ಕಾಪಾಡುವೆ ನಾ ನಿನ್ನ
ಹೋಗಬೇಡ ನನ್ನಿಂದ ದೂರ ನೀ ಇನ್ನ
ಓ ಗೆಳಯ, ಯಾಕೆ ಹೀಗೆ ಕಾಪಾಡುವೆ ನೀ ನನ್ನ
ಎಂದಿಗೂ ಇರುವುದಿಲ್ಲ ನೀ ನನ್ನೊಂದಿಗೆ
ಒಂದಲ್ಲ ಒಂದು ದಿನ ಹೋಗುವೆ ದೂರ ನೀನು
ಆಗ ನಾನಾಗುವೆ ನೀರಿಲ್ಲದ ಮೀನು
ಹಾರಲು ಬಿಡು ನನ್ನ, ಬರುವೆ ಪುನಃ ನಿನ್ನ ಬಳಿಯೇ ನಾನು
ಮನಸ್ಸು ಒಂದು ಹಕ್ಕಿ ಆದ್ರೆ ನೀನೇ ಅದರ ಒಡೆಯ
ನಿನ್ನ ಸಖಿಯಾಗಿ ಇರುವಾಸೆ ನನಗೆ
ಆಳಾಗಿ ಇರುವ ಇಚ್ಛೆ ಇಲ್ಲ
ಓ ಗೆಳತಿ, ನನ್ನ ಬಾಳ ಸಂಗಾತಿ ನೀನು
ಕೈ ಬಿಡಲಾರೆ ಎಂದಿಗೂ ನಾ
ಸಪ್ತಪದಿ ತುಳಿದು ಬಾ ನನ್ನ ಮನೆ ಬೆಳಕಾಗಿ
ಕಾರಣ, ನಿನ್ನ ಆಗಮನ ತಂದಿದೆ ನನ್ನ ಕಣ್ಣಲ್ಲಿ ಹೊಳಪು ಹೇಳುತ್ತಾರೆ ಎಲ್ಲ

Baby

My dear baby,
     Mumma misses you a lot. You know i have faced things in my life mostly what i have faced is trust issues but the problem is my parents don't see it. They feel just coz they have provided me with every luxury i shouldn't have any issues. But unfortunately they have never been my friends. They say mother is daughter's best friend but in my case forget best friend my mother never tried to befriend me in the first place. My mom always doubted me for every silly thing. Now a days my words also prick their ears even if I just talk normally, they feel i am yelling at them, i am angry which isn't true. I too have my limits, I too can get irritated, i too have patience. The more patience i show, the more they test it. Is being impatient at times is a crime? It's not that i don't love them but even love has limits.
Having them as my parents, i feel lucky sometimes but sometimes i wish they would understand me.
  The bridge of understanding never built between me and my parents but it won't be the same with you and me.

प्यार

माना था उन्हें सब कुछ
ऐसे चल दिए वो आज
जैसे हम उनके कुछ नहीं
पहले बोला करते थे कि
"तुम ही मेरा सब कुछ हो"
आज कोई और मिल गई तो हम ख़ूबसूरत रहे नहीं
ना जाने क्यों ऐसे लोग प्यार को मज़ाक बनाते है
लोग बुरे होते है,
प्यार को बुरा कहा जाता है
इंसान बेवफ़ाई करता है,
मोहब्बत को बेवफ़ा बोला जाता है
सब कुछ करे इंसान और बेकार में बदनाम होता है प्यार

Character

How do you judge a girl's character? Based on what she wears? On the basis of her attire? Based on her friends list? On the basis of how many boys she has on her friends list? First of all who are you to judge her character? Never judge a girl's character based on all this. These are all materialistic things which fade away but her soul, her heart and her thinking still remains the same. Just because her friends list has many boys than girls, it doesn't mean she is characterless it simply means that she trusts her boy friends more than girl friends. It's a new trend these days of judging a girl by the number of boy friends she has. Girls aren't mere toys or rather puppets in your hands. The society outside needs to understand that like every other person even a girl is a human being; she is not just a daughter or sister or friend or wife or mother. Like everyone she too has rights to live her life how she wants. A single question on her character either breaks her or makes her what she actually isn't. For every person, his/her character is very important. The day you question her purity, you lose her. She too can have a past or may be more than one but if she is with you, trust me she will be loyal. Boys can have many ex girlfriends but a girl isn't supposed to have a single guy until she finds the right one. Isn't it great? C'mon until she has a wrong relationship how will she find the right one? A boy is never questioned based on him being a virgin but a girl is always answerable to such questions. Her chastity is always questioned. Why? Simple just coz she is a 'GIRL'. I wonder why a girl has many rules, disciplines, principles, regulations to follow? Don't boys need to follow them as well? Why always a girl should step back when it comes to anything related to her self respect? Just because a girl is soft spoken, kind hearted, generous people take her for granted. A girl is anything and everything but she isn't a puppet or a toy to play with. A girl and boy are alone in a room that doesn't mean something is going on in between them. There are 'N' number of chances that they share a bond about which you have no idea. "Trust" is what every girl yearns for. She loves it when she gets in full rather than the belief that she receives in bits and pieces. You trust her completely, she will believe you. A single lie to her will make her question every truth of yours. When she lacks trust, she simply walks away without a word, without a goodbye, without warning and later you are left with her memories only.