मज़ाक

वो चाहे जिसका मज़ाक उड़ाए लेकिन इनका मज़ाक कोई ना उड़ाए

A girl..

Why is she born??
Just for the sake of carrying babies?
Doesn't she have a life for herself? Why is she treated as a show piece?
       Many a times we take her for granted. We think she is born to spend her whole life in the kitchen and within the four walls of the house but lil do we realise she is a human like me like you like all of us. Today I heard someone saying - 'You are born to cook food in the kitchen, to do all the house hold chores. Why do you need to study so much?' I was shocked when I heard that. Being in the 21st century, some people are still stuck in the 19th century, their thoughts towards a girl, their thinking about a girl's self-respect, their way of treating a girl everything tells their narrow-minded thinking. Often I also come across people who say 'You are a girl be in your limits, get married and have a baby; that's enough.' I wonder is a girl sent to this earth just to do what people say? No such people think that a man gave birth to them. They always forget that a woman carried them for 9 months and almost gave up in labour that's when they were born.
        A girl is much more than the description which always defines a girl.
She is a bundle of happiness, a way to make everyone smile, a packet of joy and laughter a baby girl is.
She is mumma's world and daddy's princess for life. She is sent on this earth to achieve everything she desires to, she has been sent to know what the world consists of, she is here to carry another life for 9 months and spread hapoiness around her. Yet she is underestimated, she is disregarded, she is thought as a burden.
        She is a complete package of love, life happiness, pleasure, joy, smile, laughter.. She can smile with tears in her eyes.
She can survive every storm of life, she can handle many relations at a time.
She is God's most wonderful creation

Kabhi socha??

Kabhi socha uss par kya beeti hogi jab aap dono ke ladai ki?
Kabhi yeh jaana ussko kaisa laga hoga jab aapne apna gussa uss par utaara
Kabhi usski zindagi mein kya chal raha hai yeh pucha uss se?
Kabhi yeh samjha ki bura ussko bhi lagta hoga cheezon ka
Kabhi usski jagah par khud ko rakh kar dekha?
Kabhi yeh jaana ki woh roti hai bhi ya nahi?
Kabhi pucha ussko ki woh kaisi hai?
Kabhi jaana ki woh apne muskuraahat ke peeche kya chupaye ghoom rahi hai?
Kabhi bagal mein bithake uss se pyaar se baat ki?
Kabhi usske dil ka haal jaana??
Kabhi yeh socha ki aapke ahem ke takkar mein woh piss rahi thi??

Kabhi nahi..
Ussko zindagi mein aish-o-aaram diya hai
Isiliye ussko kisi cheez ki kami kabhi lagegi nahi aur lag bhi nahi sakti
Kaash usske jagah khud ko rakh kar dekha hota toh shaayad woh aaj bhi aapke saath hoti

She...!!

Many a times, parents think our child/children are happy most of the times they are wrong. A simple smile isn't the sign of happiness. A smile has the capacity to open many secrets and hide many wounds.
   Providing luxury to children doesn't always work. A child needs love and care equally from both mother and father but many get the love from a single parent.
Being a single girl child of the house isn't easy when both parents are working. Handling their tantrums, their ego clashes, their silly arguments, their fights isn't an easy task. Many a times, she ends up in crying or even worse harms herself.

   Just because they provided with all the facilities and amenities doesn't mean they have fulfilled their duty as parents a child needs much more especially when it's a toddler. Growing up with toys surrounded by your side isn't easy not all can cope up with it but she did. No wonder she is emotionally attached to soft toys, they have always been with her from her childhood till this date. They have heard her when is angry, they sat with her when she was lonely, they handled the broken her, they knew everything about her which not many knew.
   She saw her parents fight, argue and even curse their marriage and called her a mistake still she smiled as if she is fine. Everything she had to bear because she had no other option. Being a daughter she knew how to be patient and yet people often told she was impatient. If being impatient means chocking on your own tears, if being impatient means crying in front of the walls of her room then what exactly is the meaning of impatience & patience?
     Her mother being a working woman yelled at her for no good reason. Her father took her as a punching bag infact not just her father her mother as well. Did they ever think about her?? Did they ever know how it felt to be abandoned?? Did they know how it feels to be indirectly called as a murderer of the unborn?? Did they know what it takes to hear that "you are a mistake??"

         No they don't know and they will never know.. !!!

First day

"I won't let you go. " he said holding her hand with moist eyes
"I don't want to miss my first class on the first day, dad" she said wiped his eyes and ran into the gate

Why??

PEARLS FROM THE OCEAN OF HEART

Who is she...?? What is she made for..?? Why is she put into this world...?
     Lemme answer
      She is an angel, God's angel put here amongst us for our sake, for the sake of wellness, to wipe our tears in the form of mother, sister, friend, girlfriend, wife, daughter. She comes with many relations attached to her as soon as she is born. Just like how relations get attached so do people. Along with relationships she is burdened with responsibilities which is more than her own weight.
   At an early age she needs to sacrifice her respect, her confidence for her  younger siblings,  for the sake of others she quits her studies. Just because people want her to get married she needs to quit her dreams, her ambitions.
What do they think of her..?? If at all it would be a boy in her place, he would be allowed to fulfill all his wishes and do as per his will.
    She isn't allowed to speak in front of elders but they can question everything about her even about her character but she shouldn't say a word. What sort of justice is this? What kind of equality is this? She should put her head down when boys tease her. Why so..? She shouldn't study more than the guy she marries. Why? Why is it so that boys can tease girls and she shouldn't say a word? Just because you are a girl...!!
   Why so much prejudices? Just because she is a girl.
She isn't made for getting married, bearing all the pain, every insult & giving birth to a baby & just be locked up inside the four walls.
   She is made to like happily, she is made to study, she is made to fly in the sky, she is made to fulfill all her dreams, she is put here to take care of her family and enjoy in every possible way not to just die inside the box of house. Why should she quit her career for the sake of having kids? Why always a girl foetus is aborted? Why should a baby girl suffer?
  Just because she is a girl?
Is it her mistake that she is a girl? Actually to be a girl is a blessing not a burden. Not all get a chance to be a girl, to be a woman, to bear a baby, to handle all the pain.
   Even though she is a girl, she does everything for her family. As a daughter she does for her father, as a sister she does for her brother, as a wife she does for her husband, almost gives up in the labour after which she lives for her children. 
    Everything she does and gets the credit of nothing. Doesn't she have the right to live for herself? Why isn't she supposed to be happy? Why doesn't she get appreciation for things she does? Why always she kills her wishes?
  
  Don't force her to accept your decisions. Let her be to herself because, she is after all a human being as well.

Why always a GIRL....????

NAA IRUVE SADAA NINNA NENAPALLI

Ninna hejje mele hejje ittu nadeyuve naa
Nee aagu nanna kalpane naa aaguve ninna kanasu
Ninnondige kaleda kshanagale amulya nanage
Naa illadiddaru iruvevu nanna nenapugalu ninnondige
Hecchenu beda nanage,
Ninna badukina iruve ennuva maate saaku
Naa doora hodaru doora maadabeda nanna hesaranna
Nee elle hodaru himbaalisuve ninnannu neralina haage
Bisilalli tampaaguve
Naa yendu bidalaare ninna kai
Ninna jeevandalli nange jaga illadiddaru
Naa iruve sadaa ninna nenapalli jeevantavaagi